January 20 ------ Last Dec. 22, Regine and Ogie celebrated their 14th wedding anniversary. For Regine, the cornerstone of a lasting relationship lies in open and honest communication. Regine believes that sharing thoughts, feelings, and experiences without barriers helps to build trust and understanding between partners. By actively listening and encouraging dialogue, she feels that couples can navigate challenges together, celebrate successes, and foster a deeper emotional connection that stands the test of time.
"The secret to a lasting relationship is communication. May mga times na hindi kami nag-uusap pero may body language naman. Like in our case pareho kaming nasa phone. So you need to be connected all the time. What's important is being connected, even with your children. "Yung husband ko feeling ko yung per day niya, feeling ko kino collect niya yun para pagusapan namin. Then kakausapin niya ako. I do the same thing. Pero minsan wala akong mai-share. I feel like my husband collects many things in his mind every day so that we can talk about them. Then he'll share it with me. I do the same thing, but sometimes I have nothing to share)
"Noong bago pa lang kami nagbabasa ako ng newspapers which I never did. Nagbabasa ako ng newspaper para may natsismis ako sa kanila. "My husband is sentimental. But I think mas sensitive pa rin ang mg mga babae. But he's a very sensitive guy, that's why he can write songs. He's also romantic. He has a sense of humor. A sense of humor is important in a relationship. Ayoko naman yung masungit. Gosh! Habang tumatanda tayo nagiging masungit na tayo di natin napapansin.
"We don't fight but talk. I try to process everything first. Kapag okay na ako, I would point out to him what I don't like. Kung makikipag-away ako hindi ko na mapo-point sa kanya yung gusto kong sabihin. Hindi na niya malalaman yung sama ng loob ko kasi nakikipag-away lang ako. So ganun ako. But he taught me to speak up. You have to let go of what made you feel bad. Kasi he wouldn't know. Sa pagiging sensitive niya, he is a guy, and he is still insensitive. Hindi niya mahuhulaan yun hanggang hindi mo sinasabi sa kanya. Kaming mga babae kaya namin yan eh. Ang guys hindi sila ganun," Regine added.
Source: mb.com.ph
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