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MANILA, July 22 ------ Jennylyn Mercado and new-found friend Rhea Tan have a lot in common, including their love for family and wellness. In their quiet moments, Mercado and Tan find time to reflect on their life while enjoying self-care activities. According to the 37-year old actress, she gets inspiration from her family and supporters. "Things to be thankful for? Napakarami. 'Yung career ko. 'Yun ang bumuhay sa aming family. Ang family ko. Ang family namin ni Dennis. Ang mga anak namin. Siyempre 'yung mga nagmamahal sa amin, 'yung mga fans. Sobrang thankful kami at napakasuwerte na hanggang ngayon nandiyan pa rin sila," said Mercado.
At home, Mercado makes sure to treat her children equally with the help of her husband Dennis Trillo. "Kapag nasa bahay, aligaga ako, siyempre may toddler pa ako eh. Focus ako sa aming toddler pero siyempre hindi ko pa rin pinapabayaan 'yung two boys namin. Isang 15 and isang 16. Iba-iba na 'yung mga gusto nila sa buhay. Kailangan pantay-pantay pa rin ang trato. Walang magseselos. Ang toddler, hindi siya madaling alagaan. Kailangan mo nang mahabang pasensya. Tatakbo ka, aakyat siya, mahuhulog, madadapa pero ang importante ay nandito kaming dalawa ni Dennis para alalayan," she shared. She added, "Maliit pa si Dylan. 'Yung bunso namin 2 years old pa lang. Gusto kong mag-focus sa kanya. I-enjoy 'yung childhood na kasama ako. Hindi ko na-experience 'yan kay Jazz dahil kinailangan kong mag-work agad after kong manganak dahil nga single mom. Suwerte ngayon dahil nagte-take ako ng time. Relax muna ako ngayon. Enjoy-in ko muna 'yung baby para makasama niya ako habang bata pa siya at ma-enjoy namin ang isa't isa."
As an actress whose nature of work relies on her beauty and physical appearance, Mercado shared her thoughts on aging. "Noon kasi, nung medyo kabataan ko pa, hindi ako nagwo-worry na parang excited akong tumanda. Pero nung umabot na ako ng mid 30s, parang inisip ko malapit na ako mag-40, paano ito. Pero hindi dapat mag-worry. Basta alam mo paano alagaan ang sarili mo — physically and mentally. Alam mo na 'yung mga taong nasa paligid mo ay tatanggapin ka kahit ano pang itsura mo, kahit ano ka pa, okay lang, walang problema para sa akin," she said.
Asked about her self-care activities, she said: "Marami tayong kailangang gawin for self-care. Kailangan natin as much as possible isingit 'yung workout. Nakakatulong 'yan sa pag de-stress. Ako guilty ako diyan na napapabayaan ang sarili lalo na kapag nagkaanak, nagiging busy as housewife tapos ija-juggle mo pati 'yung career so medyo mahirap 'yun para sa aming mga mommy. Para sa akin, importante ang self-love and self-care. 'Wag na 'wag nating papabayaan ang sarili kasi hindi natin maaalagaan 'yung mga mahal natin sa buhay kapag tayo ay hindi fit para gawin natin lahat ng dapat nating gawin." The hands-on mom and dedicated actress also gave an update on her movie with her husband and Sam Milby. "Meron kaming lalabas na movie ni Dennis kasama si Sam under CreaZion this year din pero wala pa pong target date pero ngayong taon po 'yan lalabas," she said during her contract signing with Beautéderm, a beauty brand owned by Tan.
Tan, for her part, is proud of her age, saying that aging is a privilege. "Aging is a privilege. Hindi lahat tumatanda. Ibig sabihin, you're alive and blessed. One of the things that you should be grateful for na kailangan mong sabihin na, 'I'm 43. I'm happy and blessed.' Kailangan alagaan mo muna 'yung sarili mo before you take good care of everyone," she said. She continued, "6 years from now, 50 na ako. Dapat lagi tayong maging masaya. Dapat ang problema, hindi tinatambayan." While running her empire, the celebrity entrepreneur also finds time for her children. "Dalawa na ang anak ko. Modesty aside I have everything na eh sa age ko na ito. I now have a child in college. I make sure that I can attend their activities. I call the school for their activities." Her advice to young entrepreneurs: "Hindi 'yung money. Hindi 'yung fame. Sabi ko, dapat huwag magbago kasi ang taong makakasalubong mo ay pag-akyat mo 'yun din sa pagbaba mo. Stay humble and grateful," she ended.
Source: news.abs-cbn.com
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